[Ask April Masini]

Yes, you are a fool to trust her. 😕 She’s done everything but take out a neon billboard sign that says she’s using you and doesn’t really care about you very much. The only reason to stay with her is if you really have low self esteem and want it to go though the floor! 😮

First of all, she’s told you she’s cheated on every guy she’s ever been with. Do you really think you’re the ONE guy who’s going to be the exception to the rule? When you see a pattern in someone’s behavior, pay attention to it.

Second of all, she won’t let you meet her guy friends and she goes out with them without you, drinks, and stays out until the early morning hours. Obviously, if she cared about you she’d want you with her and she’d want you to meet her friends. 😳

Third, she’d rather be with her elderly mother than you. It’s wonderful to love one’s parents, but not at the expense of a potential husband, which I assume at your age and with four years of a relationship with her under your belt, you’re at least considering.

Behavior speaks volumes about a person’s character and their expectations for their lives. She’s told you all you need to know to understand she’s not Ms. Right. My advice is to break up and find a woman who’s actually nice to you, likes you (and even loves you!) and wants you to be part of her life. You’ll be a LOT happier!

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