You mentioned two specific problems: 1. He chews ❓ ❓ and 2. He’s racist. The first problem I assume is that you mean he chews with his mouth open or he chews loudly. This is a manners problem and something that he should be able to change. But being a racist is a more basic, character problem. It has to do with his core beliefs. It’s going to be a lot harder to get him to change that one, as you know, and asking him to not say racist things around you isn’t going to take away from the fact that he is a racist at his core.
Your friends are right. You need someone who is Mr. Right and this guy isn’t. Compatibility is important and you don’t have it with him.
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Be glad you only invested three months in this guy, and not more. Next!!
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