After seven years you have to take a three month break to see if you want to be together?! 😯 I think you’re in a relationship that doesn’t have a strong foundation, and this is NOT the time to start trying to get pregnant. If you and this guy can’t even decide whether or not to get married after seven years together, why bring a child into the middle of such potential chaos? If you think a baby is going to make him love you more, you’re mistaken.
Since he won’t stop contact with this other woman, you have to understand that he isn’t putting your feelings or the relationship first and foremost.
It’s time for you to move on. I’m sorry because I’m quite sure this isn’t what you want to hear, but you’re walking down the wrong path. About face!
I hope that helps and that you’ll let me know how things go.
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