The best way to find out if he wants to be more than friends with benefits is to make yourself available as a potential date! He’s not going to ask you out properly because he knows you have a boyfriend that you’re cheating on with him. That’s not a great advertisement for yourself as a girlfriend. 😕 He’s got to be wondering if you’d do that to him if he were your boyfriend.
My advice is to break up with your boyfriend now, and make yourself available as a girlfriend — not just a serial one night stander! The truth is that men WANT to work for a date and they WANT to win you over. They have sex with women because they can. This guy is showing signs of liking you because he cleans up after you — but he could also just have a little obsessive compulsive disorder and dislike messes! 😆 So don’t read too much into his cleaning up after you.
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