Of course you’re depressed, but focusing that rejection on the crush is convenient — but not necessarily [i]the true source[/i] of your depression. Having left college and now facing a very uncertain career in a difficult economy is a source of anxiety and depression for you — and many other readers. The crush is just a diversion from the real problem which is job anxiety.
I think you have to use your resources to explore other job options and back up plans in case this flight crew career vector doesn’t bring you the job satisfaction you were hoping for. If you take care of this piece of (very big) business, you’re going to feel self-satisfied and the little thorns in your side, like this crush you haven’t heard from, won’t bother you so much.
Go back to Think & Date Like A Man, and re-read it. Utilize the portions of it that help you [i]now[/i]. Your last crush was someone you met in the course of your day to day life. Well, I’d like to see you employ all the Think & Date Like A Man tools and find someone new, available and interested in you in your current day to day life.
I hope that helps you refocus your energy and feel better.
Let me know how it goes — and please join me on Facebook. You may get some inspiration there. Here’s that link: [url][/url]. 🙂
