I’m sorry, but I can’t give you any more free advice.
I’ve asked you to buy and read Think & Date LIke A Man, [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url], because it will help you in your specific situations[i] a lot[/i]. I think you’ll find what you need there!
Good luck! 🙂