You can’t just sit there — you need to do something so that this kind of problem doesn’t occur again. Clearly you have an alcohol issue since you didn’t just get drunk: you blacked out. You can’t remember what you said or did. This is serious and I sincerely doubt it’s the first time it’s happened.
You need to see your physician about your drinking problem and talk to someone in Alcoholics Anonymous so you can get the help you need so you won’t destroy relationships.
If your boyfriend knows that you acknowledge your problem and that you’re doing something to make things better (this requires more than just lip service from you), he may want to get back together again. But don’t let this relationship issue be the beginning and the end of the problem: address your issue with alcohol. If you don’t, it will probably get worse.
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