It’s hard to know how you’ll feel in two months from now so don’t worry about that at this moment. 🙂 Allow the break up to happen and if you want to be single, be single until you want to date again, and then you can date. You’re free and you can explore other relationships or dating the field or just being single and enjoying group social activities and time with friends and family. You have lots of options right now.
You’re probably not devastated because you know that what’s happening is the right thing for now. It really sounds that he is not ready for a relationship and you understand this and accept it. 😀 This understanding and acceptance is what allows you to live peacefully and move on. So, nice job. ❗
If in two months he changes his mind and you see change in his behavior that allows you to think he might be ready for a deeper commitment, you can decide at that time if you want to date him. But use this time to nurture yourself and think about what you had, what you want and what you need to live a happy, productive life that includes a romantic relationship in it.
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