[Ask April Masini]

[quote] I love him to death as a friend, and don’t want to lose that, but how do I get him to finally admit why he broke up with me so I can get some finality and stop holding onto the life preserver of hope he threw out to me? Or do you think there is someway that this can be reversed?[/quote]

That was a lot of text leading up to your two questions! The answer to your first question is that you can’t “get him” to admit his reasons for breaking up with you. You should just accept that he did break up with you. Behavior is more important to note than words, so accept the break up and do whatever YOU have to do to understand it’s final.

As for your second question, I don’t think it can be reversed as a meaningful relationship. You broke some cardinal rules in dating, and if you read Think & Date Like A Man,[url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url], a book I wrote for women to understand the differences between men and women so that they can think and date SMART, you’ll “get it”.

Read the book and start paying attention to the rules for finding, getting and keeping Mr. Right. You’ll learn a lot and you won’t wind up in this position again if you read this book. 😀

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