What matters is her decision and she’s chosen her family tradition over her love for you. It takes a lot of courage to follow your heart when it conflicts with what your family wants. She’s not ready to leave her family. She may never want to.
I know you’re hurt. In the future it’s much better to be honest up front and for any woman you’re dating to be someone who’s honest in her relationships with you, her friends — and her parents. That she hid your caste from her family from day one spoke to the fact that she was fearful of them and not ready to stand up to them. Sadly, this makes the two of you incompatible.
I’m very sorry you’re hurt. The best thing for you to do is to move on and to find someone with whom you’re compatible as a couple and as merging families.
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