You need to be realistic. You didn’t realize when you started dating your ex-fiance that marriage was on her agenda, or that she was so close to her family, but as you got to know her, you did. Dating is a process to get to know someone and find out if you’re both compatible with each other. While love was your priority, love and marriage together, within a year or so, were hers. It isn’t fair to ignore her priorities once you know them — and it isn’t fair for her to ignore yours, either. It sounds like you both ignored or fudged over this incompatibility and didn’t communicate clearly about it. But now that you know how important her timetable is, unless you’re ready to get married [i]now[/i], there’s no sense trying to date her again.
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