It sounds like over the course of six weeks you and this woman got to know each other and it seems like there are some barriers to becoming a couple in the way that I think you want to be a couple. Rather than try and save a relationship that is riddled with ups and downs, why not accept that she is someone who isn’t ready to be in a relationship the same way you are?
Compatibility is really important in making a relationship work and if you choose someone who’s not ready for marriage — or whatever your goal is for a relationship (long term monogamy, for instance), you’re setting yourself up for heartache.
My advice is to let go and move on and find someone who’s more compatible. But don’t get too attached until you know that they’re a good match.
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