Your social anxiety may stem from not “reading” other people. In fact, you didn’t read your boyfriend and now you’re very hurt. 😥 He’s been very clear with you that he doesn’t want a serious relationship with you. You can’t “fix” that because there is nothing to fix. While you are clear on how you see things and what you want, you’ve failed to accept his feelings. Relationships work when both people in them want enough of the same things that they agree to stay together and commit to each other. This relationship, sadly, doesn’t have those elements, and is over.
It’s a shame you wasted two years of your life with a guy who isn’t interested in anything more than dating, and that’s what I’d like to help you with. I’ve written a book for women who want to find, get and keep Mr. Right. It’s called Think & Date Out of Your League, and you can buy it at Barnes & Noble, Amazon or right here: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url]. I hope you’ll buy it and read it.
I’m sorry you’re sad, but I hope you won’t waste any more time with someone who isn’t Mr. Right, and start looking for someone who is! 😀
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