First, I suggest you make a clean break and walk away. This guy is clearly in love with his ex-girlfriend whom he dated for seven years, and is still not over her two years later. This tells you two things: One, he’s not available as boyfriend material. He’s invested emotionally elsewhere. You deserve someone who’s available and this guy isn’t. He may have all the qualities you are looking for in a man, but he’s more interested in another woman with whom he has had a long term relationship — and that makes him Mr. Wrong for you. 🙁 And, two, that even after a seven year relationship and a two year break up period, he still isn’t serious about giving his ex-girlfriend a commitment, although he’s still interested in being with her. This guy has commitment issues and will waste your time. 😕
Second, I think you should get my book, Think & Date Like A Man, that I’ve written for women who are looking to find, get and keep Mr. Right. You can purchase the book at Barnes & Noble, Amazon, or as an automatic download at this link: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url]. You’ve ignored a couple of flashing yellow lights in this last relationship that could have saved you time and pain and if you read this book you’ll have an easier time next time around.
For instance, you shouldn’t make a first move or ask about the status of the relationship. You should let the guy do this, and if he DOESN’T do it then that’s a CLEAR SIGN what the status is. There are lots of ways that you’ll be able to know how a man feels about you and if he’s serious — that don’t involve words. This book will help you.
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