[Ask April Masini]

I’m going to help you, but you won’t like my advice. 😕

I take it you never told your fiance that you made out with her mother before you dated her. Imagine how she’d feel if she ever found out. 😯 The fact that you’re in love with her mother and are pursuing her and having glasses of wine together and even lunch, is a sure sign that you are clearly not ready to be married to anyone! The relationship with your fiance is over. There is no way you can make this work, but frankly, I don’t think you want to. That said, you need to break up with her and have her move out, or else move yourself and your children out of the house so you don’t have contact with her any more.

The relationship with her mother isn’t going to go anywhere because her mother will never date you after you’ve broken up an engagement to her daughter. If she does, then you’re dating a pretty twisted woman and as a father, you need to be very careful who you bring home. Your children are going to be affected by your behavior and the people you bring into their lives.

I’m not sure how long you were divorced before you started dating your fiance over four years ago, but clearly, you’re not ready to choose wisely. Sometimes it’s better to play the field and get to know YOURSELF better so that you can choose a woman who is your Ms. Right. It doesn’t sound like you’re ready to date one woman because you’re still figuring out who is right for you. Until that time, slow down. Play the field. Be single for now.

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