ahhhhh…Thank You!! Honesty is what I need to hear.. You couldnt be more correct.. I think its hard to see the plain reality of the situation because I get so emotionally involved… and way too soon… a habit of mine. You’ve just released a huge weight off of my shoulders as now I can take a step back and see how naive I can be sometimes… no matter how smart or strong I think I am! I felt extremely guilty from the start knowing he was married, and I should have listened to my instinct then. I cannot thank you enough for the “slap in the face”! You just made my day 😀