Your past was traumatic, but more important is the death of your live in boyfriend two years ago. I think that you’re reacting to being with someone for the first time since you were with your boyfriend, and you’re hitting some bumps in the road. I wouldn’t be too quick to tag this as trauma or historical dysfunction. For now, chalk it off to just sleeping with the wrong guy!
I hope that helps. Don’t over think and take time getting back into the dating whirl. Let me know how things go, and I’d like it if you’d follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url].
