Rule number one — never initiate the conversations, or the texts or the phone calls with a guy. In addition to a host of other things, if you let him initiate you won’t be confused because you’ll know straight up if he likes you enough to contact you or not. So stop making the first moves.
Second, while there’s only a five year age gap between the two of you, at your age this is a big gap. Too big. You’re not legal and he is, and he could get in big trouble if the two of you started dating. That’s probably why he’s not initiating anything with you. He knows that he shouldn’t.
So follow those two rules and you’ll be less dazed and a lot less confused. Don’t chase guys or even initiate contact and pick someone who’s closer to your age until you’re a legal adult. Your life will be less complicated and happier. 😀
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