It’s not fair for you to think that you deserve an explanation for his behavior, but he doesn’t deserve a label for the relationship. You can’t have a two way street if you’re only willing to go one way. 😕
When he asked you to be his girlfriend, instead of accepting, you pushed your own values on him and they weren’t compatible with his. Men want to feel like they’re in charge of things, and you took that away from him. You’d get a lot out of reading Think & Date Like A Man, [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url]. I hope you’ll buy it and read it.
When you do, you’ll understand what men are looking for in a relationship and how to keep one. Your guy’s feelings didn’t change suddenly. They changed gradually, and you weren’t paying attention. 🙁 Now you want closure, but you’re going to have to get it from within — not from him. He’s done and has moved on.
When you understand the part your own behavior plays in a relationship you can decide whether or not you want to change it, and [i]that[/i] is how you’ll get your closure.
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