Hi,
I was reading your story and can completely identify with it. I am dating a man for almost 2yrs with 2 children (I have only one daughter) and although our children are the same age and get along (9yr old daughter and his son is 7) I also have been feeling really crappy about the fact that his x has been switching around the custody arrangement lately (because she is taking the kids out of the country for two weeks in June) and I have had NO TIME with him for a few weeks now. We have been fighting like crazy as well.
I think what I am realizing is although it seemed like a good idea to be a single mom with kids dating other men who have children…I think its much less heartache to find a guy with no children who can give me all the attention I need at this point in my life. I know you love him and all but think about down the line….I am 44yrs old…YOU deserve to be happy with someone who will make YOU a priority NOW! 🙂
Too much baby Mamma drama as well.
