Thank you for compiling everything together — but please stop creating new posts on the same subject. You’ve created two posts three minutes apart with different titles this morning.
Anyway, I’m going to answer you here and maybe your tenacity and confusion is a metaphor for what’s going on with this guy. Your last post to me asked why he says “love you” and if that means he has feelings for you.
People say “love you” in a casual way. I think that’s what he’s doing. He does have feelings for you, but they’re his feelings — not yours — and they’re not the same as yours. He said he doesn’t want a girlfriend. He likes you. He’s having sex with you because you agree to.
If you want a boyfriend, he’s already told you he’s not your guy. I think you’re trying to turn him into someone he’s not. 😳
