Purplerain
He is not your good friend. No good friend would do that to you ! A good friend would sit you down and have a sincere talk with you, not string you along !
An important part of our role as women in a relationship , any relationship is the relationship you have with yourself and your own body. You have to know that the way you present yourself in front of your man is very important. you have to learn how to take good care of yourself, mentally , emotionally and physically, at all times.
At this point you need to take action with all these aspects of your being. It will give you a power, confidence and peace that nobody can take from you , and don’t let people or adverse circumstances have negative influence over you. It is easy in theory , and amazing in reality. Only that needs practice , every day and when the going is getting hard seek advice , professional advice. By merely talking to your friends won’t help much because they will filter your story through their experience, their emotional baggage and sometimes you ll be more confused. Talk to them if you need to air it out but go to prefessionals for real , long lasting solutions to your problems. When you have toothache you go to the dentist, don’t you ? You don’t go to your friends. When you have heartache go to the proper professionals who will help you work through your problems.
If we have deep seated issues with the way we react to life’s situations we need professional help and a strong, stronger than anything else desire to get well. Exercise, psychotherapy, self grooming are tools and it is up to what we do with them to be successful.
I hope this will help you at least make you excited enough about the amazing new you that is hidden inside you in order to take necessary action. Have faith. Believing with faith is extraordinary, believing with doubt is horrible.
Recreate yourself and your love life !
