When you wrote, “he made plans to marry me,” does that mean he proposed to you? Were you involved in those plans? Also, how old are you both?
What you’re describing — his saying he needs space from holding hands — doesn’t sound on it’s own like a warning light. However, I suspect there is more you’re not telling me. Trust your instincts. There is no reason to give someone a five year commitment to make a lifelong commitment! 😕
I don’t think he’s displaying inconsistencies. I think he’s showing you who he’s becoming. He may not be someone who wants public affection all the time, and it’s normal for relationships to go through ups and downs.
I can’t tell if you’re making something out of nothing or if you just haven’t described everything that’s going on, but from what you’re telling me, I don’t see a reason for your fear.
Tell me more….
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