[Ask April Masini]

Whether or not he’s a great guy, he’s not ready to give you the commitment you want right now. Your instincts are telling you you’re going to lose him because he’s pulling away from you after three years of dating and no engagement ring or wedding date. I know you’re trying to convince yourself that everything is going to be alright, but you’re a nervous wreck because deep in your heart, you don’t believe this is going to work out. That’s why you feel fear and helplessness. 🙁

You’re not going to change him. You’ve already tried, and that only made you feel worse. However, you can change yourself. Here are the tough decision you have to make:

1. Decide what you want, and if it’s to get married to Mr. Right, commit to that decision.

2. Don’t waste your time with anyone who is not Mr. Right.

3. Read Think & Date Like A Man, so you understand how to attract, get and keep Mr. Right. Here’s the link to buy the book. It’s $15.95 a lot cheaper and more effective than any psychologist you’re going to hire. [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url]

4. A guy who is ready for a serious and committed relationship will act like he’s ready for a serious and committed relationship. Your guy is not acting like he’s ready for the kind of relationship you want.

I hope that helps. Let me know how it goes and read the book. Also, please join me on Facebook. Here’s that link: [url][/url].