It’s time for you to let go of this “friendship” now. It was probably never a good idea, and I stick to my philosophy that men and women shouldn’t be good friends because one person always becomes more interested than the other. Your situation is exactly that example. He’s being very clear with you that he isn’t interested in you as a date, but you can’t hear it. He’s newly divorced and not interested in settling down, so my advice is to stop spending any more time with him and start investing your time and energy in men who are actually available and interested in you. If you need a friend, pick a woman. 😉
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