[Ask April Masini]

You’re fooling yourself. 😳 Clearly he’s given you reason to distrust him. In fact you wrote that you only found out he was seeing his ex-girlfriend after you “got it out of him” because he wasn’t forthcoming in disclosing their meet up. 🙄

Pay attention to a man’s behavior — that speaks volumes over his words! He’s been engaged to you for three years; you have no wedding date, and you’re both living with his mother? 😯 And now he’s seeing his ex-girlfriend and keeping in contact with her on the phone and by text as well as in person, multiple times without you — and he’s telling you YOU have to accept their relationship (from which you’re excluded!). 😮 This is not a guy who is ready to marry you or be committed to you. He’s looking for excitement — and a way out of a relationship rut he’s in — and he’s getting those needs fulfilled with his ex! 😕

This man doesn’t feel you’re a prize — if he did, he’d treat you like one. My suggestion is to move out and move on. You can CLEARLY do better than this relationship you’re stuck in. Your fiance’s ex-girlfriend has a strong history of cheating, and he’s pretty much doing the same right in front of you (if they haven’t had sex together yet, they will). Are you waiting for a neon sign to tell you this isn’t Mr. Right?

I’m sorry to be so harsh, but it’s a shame to waste any more of your valuable time on this guy when there is SURELY a real Mr. Right out there. Get my book, Think & Date Like A Man, and read it! Here’s the link for the automatic download so you can start reading tonight: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url].

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