You didn’t take my advice, and you’re behaving as if you want to stay engaged in this dysfunction. If you want to get out of this mess, YOU have to change your behavior.
Since I last advised you, you’ve dug yourself in deeper. There’s no reason to text someone at 2 a.m. with a smiley face when you have this kind of dysfunction going on. It’s just antagonizing — and that’s exactly the reaction you got from her. She’s now had enough and she’s told you she’s got another boyfriend and she’s not interested.
Sorry — I can only give the advice. I can’t make you take it! 😕
Good luck!
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