[Anonymous]

Unloved? What’s love got to do with it?

He cheated on his girlfriends and you’re nothing but merely a side project when he gets bored in his relationship. If he wanted anything serious with you he would have pursued it. Have you ever watched the show, [i]Cheaters[/i]? You know, the guy that has a steady, serious girlfriend and he is out cheating on her with a random woman, and when he is caught he confesses that the other woman was nothing serious, and that his girlfriend is what means the most to him?

Yeah. That’s your situation.

I suggest forgetting about him. Even if he did really like you and pursued you seriously, what kind of a man do you think he is, if he is cheating on his girlfriends? You think he wouldn’t do the same to you? Find a guy who actually likes you for you and who wants you as much as you want them. Have some pride and respect for yourself. Never settle. Don’t beg him to chase you by constantly being up his tail, uttering tough words like “you better leave her or we’re done.” There’s nothing to be “done” with. Let it go. He’s making an idiot out of you.

Answer: Stop being easy; what are you making out with him for if he is in a relationship? You sound very naive. They say they’ll leave just to keep you around for play. Leave him alone now or learn the hard way later.