[quote=”Tango10″][color=#4080FF]Hi…sounds to me like she’s very confused. [/color][/quote]
Hi there,
thanks for your thoughts. Well, she’s not getting pressure from the family regarding boyfriends or anything like that, but things aren’t easy for her at home. She gets a lot of stick from her mum and that has been upsetting her recently, which is possibly a contributing factor.
Her ex-boyfriend lives in Iran and he’s pretty much just left her alone now, so I don’t think he’s pressuring her. Although, she said that, at times, she’s been thinking about him and feels like she’s misses him – although she hates him and would never want to be with him. Is that normal??? It sounds like she’s still traumatised to me, which I think is understandable.
I agree with you, people don’t just change their mind about someone that much and that quickly unless something has happened between them. Certainly nothing bad has happened between us. We have minor arguments at times, but generally we have a mature relationship and communicate very well. She texted me last night when I was in bed saying ‘you’re the only real man I’ve ever known, I don’t regret anything’ with you’.
I know she still loves me, it’s just so strange.
