I know I am not April. But my advice is to avoid talking about you exs. Do your best to reassure her that you are only interested in her. If that doesn’t work. I hate to say it but she might be to insecure to be in a relationship right now. As far as being stuck in the past… Is there any other reason besides the photos to make your girlfriend believe you are living in the past? Try to prevent the spiral into non logical things. Keep this issue out of her mind until she feels more secure. Then talk about again.
