Just some other thoughts to add:
– She was on birth control way before she was sexually active so idk how that affects it.
– We have already talked about it a lot. We agree I am sexual and she is not. And we don’t know what to do about it.
– I would imagine if the problem was solely with the pain and nothing else, she would want other sexual activities.
– Most important to me, I want her to want to have sex. I don’t want to just have sex because she feels like she is obligated to. That takes out the emotional part of sex for me.
