There are different reasons that people cheat, and it’s not always black and white. Getting past the hurt and betrayal and understanding whether or not you played a part in the scenario that led up to the cheating can be eye opening. I’m not forgiving betrayal, but there’s often a shade or two of grey and understanding to be had if you want to mend bridges. On the other hand, sometimes cheating is just plain old immaturity and a reminder that you didn’t realize the person you were with wasn’t available for a long term commitment.
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