First of all, DON’T have unprotected sex. It’s not worth the risk!
Second of all, definitely have a talk with him and express your concern that your sex life will never include the things you’d like for them to include. Gently ask him if he’d be willing to have a physical with his medical doctor to make sure his disinterest in sex isn’t a result of some other deficit or condition. It’s always best to see a doctor to rule out any problems that could be causing a low libido.
It’s unusual for a 30 year old man to only want sex once every six weeks, so your right to express concern. Now you’ve got to open the channels of communication with him. When you do make sure you don’t blame him or make him feel defensive. The point is that you want to have a more intimate sex life with more sexual expression than what you’ve been doing so far.
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