i did ask in advance earlier in the night if that counts.
i asked her at maybe say 8ish if we could leave a bit early.
when i did ask her she said no problem, at 11 when i was ready she was going to tell her friend.
her friend had problem with that and asked her to stay and lime with her.
mind you at 11 in the night i was not leaving the wedding to go celebrate anyone’s bday.
i had to go to the airport the following day and she knew this a month in advance.
knowing this would you say that i should have stayed and be more understanding?