You may think he did a 180 degree turn — but I don’t think he feels that way. That’s why trying to get closure or continuing to contact him is wrong. [b]Emily77[/b] has the right idea when she wrote that you can write letters — for yourself — just don’t send them to him. Letting go is hard, but you can do it. Don’t focus on him any more — keep busy, make new friends, take up a new hobby, volunteer, throw a dinner party — just don’t contact him any more. 😉