Anonymous
we dated for over 7 years. in these emails i found out that he started pursuing another person more than a month before we broke up, and has been seeing her since. then we broke up in june, and have been in constant contact since. in september, HE called ME to tell me he wants us to work on fixing our relationship, and that we weren’t going to see other people so of course i believed him.
obviously i felt like there was something up. like he would be unavailable for random amounts of time, or his phone was off. it just felt secretive.
i did something i never thought i would and checked his email, and found out that after he told me it was going to be us working on our relationship, he told the other girl he loved her, and even took her to thanksgiving with her family (were in canada).
i was destroyed, especially about the last month, even more then the time before we broke up. Now hes again, told me that he is so sorry, he loves me it should be me and him, and that he never loved her, but was confused.
he was feeling unhappy in our relationship and i know i was treating him poorly before, and i can forgive the stuff before we broke up because BOTH of us contributed to that, and i can understand it.
i want to give him ONE last shot because i honestly think that we both want it. its only been a few days, but i just want to know HOW i could possibly trust what he says?? i just am a mess…..
