I have another question.
Obviously, we don’t live together right now, but we did for 4 years. We found that some issues that we had arose from living together and possibly moving in together too young (I wouldn’t take out the garbage because he never took out the garbage, but he never did because I didnt…. Stupid immaturity issues).
Would it be important for us to move back in together and work through all our issues this way, so that we can build and work on where we went wrong and what we need to fix or is it better to live apart and work on growing as ourselves and then move back in together??
I am scared of both… Im scared if we move back in together right away we will just fall back into the same routines. I am also scared because what if we are amazing for months in so many other ways and then decide its time to move back in together and then it falls apart then??
I also am unsure how to deal with the issues of trust i am having if we don’t live together…
