You’re wanting everything to fall right into place, when rebuilding trust takes time. Moving in together is not going to fix things. Your desire to do so indicates that you’re insecure and afraid of losing him. You want to know where he is every minute so you can assure yourself he’s not cheating on you. Well, living together won’t solve that problem. Lots of people who live together still cheat.
You need to work on you, and if he decides he wants to work on himself, then you can cover a lot more ground together. The issue you mentioned about not taking out the garbage is truly immaturity. What will you do if that issue arises again — if he doesn’t take out the garbage? What are the other problems you had — and how will you handle them differently now?
I don’t recommend you move back in together until you feel like you’ve rebuilt your trust and you really want to be committed to him, and you feel he wants to be committed to you, too. Don’t move in together until you really feel like you trust him again.
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