My advice to you is to focus on your relationship with your boyfriend — not this other woman. Make your relationship what you want it to be. You can’t control all the outside influences that will affect him or that will affect you. The important thing is that he appears to be loyal to you. That he brought you along to meet her and her husband is an act of honesty and openness on his part. A guy who was after some cheating wouldn’t have brought you to meet her and wouldn’t have met her husband.
Don’t confront her. Don’t give her any of your energy. She’s needy for male attention, and she’s looking to lots of men to get it. Your boyfriend is just a drop in her bucket. If you don’t give her any credence, I think that eventually he won’t, either.
As for his accepting her e-mails and befriending her, think about how you’d deal with a friend of his that you didn’t like, who was male. You’d probably mention it, but not make it a big deal. Ultimately, it’s his decision who he befriends, but if your relationship with him is “bulletproof” then she won’t be able to hurt it.
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