[Ask April Masini]

You’ve waited long enough. It’s over. He’s experimenting and changing and he’s not interested in you anymore. His behavior is very clear, and I’m sorry that you’re hurt. Rejection stings, but it’s a big gift if you look at it from a distance. Why waste your time and energy on someone who doesn’t want you? It’s much better to accept that this relationship has run it’s course and is over, so that you can move on.

You’re in a new environment now, and it’s scary and understandable that you want to hold on to things that used to bring you comfort, but a better plan is to look for love with someone who’s more compatible with you. Find someone at your college to date — not a guy who’s still in high school and is enmeshed in that culture.

You write that you want him to want you, but I think what you really want is SOMEONE to want you. It doesn’t have to be him. You can much more easily find Mr. Right if you cast your sight on the horizon — not behind you.

I hope that helps. You might want to check out my book, Think & Date Like A Man, that I wrote for women who want to find, get and keep Mr. Right. This is a perfect time for you to read it. You can get it at Amazon.com or on the website for Barnes & Noble or right here: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url].

Follow me on Twitter @AskAprilcom (no dot), too. You’ll get comfort in reading about other peoples’ issues as I tweet them. 😀