Having three failed marriages by age 41 is a flashing yellow light that you need to do things differently in your relationships. 😮 Lose the confusion: If the guy you’re dating, going to church with and vacationing with says he does not want to be your “boyfriend” or be in “a relationship” with you — understand he’s not ready and he’s saying this to you because he doesn’t want a full commitment. He’s being very clear that he has an out.
Because of your age, your three failed marriages and your six months of dating this guy, it’s time for you to move on and find someone who at six months of dating IS ready for a commitment. If he can’t focus or multitask enough to be in a relationship and do the other things he has to do in his life, at his age, he’s not the right one for you now.
Sorry!
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