We all want things — to be President of the United States, Miss America, married to George Clooney, taller, blonder, happier — but it doesn’t mean we can have them. You may want your ex-boyfriend back, but he doesn’t want you. I’m sorry to be blunt, but you’re not hearing him, so maybe you’ll hear me. It takes two people to make a relationship work, but only one to end it.
That said, if you’re trying to get ANY man to want you, you should read Think & Date Like A Man, [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url], a book I wrote for women who want to find, get and keep Mr. Right. You can buy it on the link I’ve given you or on the websites for Amazon or Barnes & Noble. In it, among other very important things, you’ll learn why it’s important NOT to chase a man. It won’t get you anywhere good. So stop texting him and stop telling him you love him, when you know he isn’t responsive or interested.
Instead, treat the rejection like a gift instead of a booby prize. I know it hurts to be rejected, but the bigger picture will let you see that you’re being steered away from a man who isn’t interested so you can spend your energy on those who are! It’s time for you to cast your gaze elsewhere and find a man who wants you and who can offer you a lot more than this guy can — which right now, is nothing. 😳
I hope that helps. Please let me know how things go, and follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter. 😀
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