[Ask April Masini]

This isn’t a good time to move in together. The stress of the apartment hunt, the financial cost of the place, and your concern that the relationship may not go the distance are three good reasons why living together isn’t a good idea for you right now. Why not just continue to date, but take the pressure of living together off the table? You’ll relax, relieve yourself of stress, and be able to see where the relationship goes without the added pressures.