[Ask April Masini]

You got some great advice from [b]just my opinion …[/b] and here’s mine:

First of all, being partially deaf isn’t your whole package. Neither is being short. Lots of short men and men with partial deafness do well in the dating world because they focus on what their assets are. The truth is women are drawn to confidence, success and a sense of humor over looks any day. So stop focusing on what you consider your deficits because I’m hearing you have a lot of assets that can be developed — like your education, your desire to win with women, your intelligence, etc.

Second of all, you have to get over this fear of rejection immediately because you’re wasting time worrying about being dumped. The reality is EVERYONE gets rejected, and some of us, a lot — but the best lovers, spouses, and dates are the ones who focus on their wins — not their losses. Look at rejection as a gift. If a woman isn’t interested in you, isn’t it better to find that out in the first week or two of meeting her so you can move on and pursue someone who’s a better match, rather than wasting (in your case) years chasing Ms. WRONG? Don’t answer, because I’ll do it for you: Yes!!

Third, buy and READ my book for men called Date Out of Your League: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url]. This book is an automatic download so you can buy it and start reading tonight! It will help you a lot — and you can re-read portions of it that apply to your life now, for extra support.

I hope this helps. Let me know how it goes, and please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url]. 😀