Also, was just thinking about this… she is friends with almost all of her ex’s or guys she was dating. I told her that makes me uncomfortable (which it does still). She tells me to trust her and be more secure about things. I just really don’t like it as many of them still want her. She even mentions things at times as well as talking about the idea of one of them coming to visit or some such. Or the worst one in my opinion was asking to go to 2 different concerts with one and then another who invited her to come visit and hit the bars with him (and he has a gf too). I think those things should’ve never even been mentioned let alone considered. She views it innocently but I regardless of how innocent it may be on her end I don’t trust the guys intentions and think it is highly inappropriate in a lot of ways.
Sorry I know I am asking a lot and not even my first question was answered but I am wondering how to handle everything. Thanks ahead of time.