Thankyou for the advice April. I’m taking this in.
I really do hope that these patterns don’t repeat themselves again. I want to protect myself too. I love this girl and would be willing to give her one more chance when she’s fully prepared. Because we did have a close relationship, and the second time around it was even stonger, we talked about the future, she put effort and time into making this work out and ignored her ex for a while. I’ve stayed at her house, i’ve met her parents, etc. I beleive that these things happened for a good reason, because she isn’t the type that just let’s anyone into her personal, private life.
It just sucks that she broke down again.. it’s been 2 weeks and a bit. We only speak on the weekends, briely. But sometimes i really feel the urge to call her. I don’t want to lose her forever..
Do you think that when she finally comes around to forgetting her past and her ex, that me and her can have our chance of forming a lasting, healthy relationship?