Thanks, April!
It’s good to hear somebody reinforcing what I already understand I have to do. I need it. But there are things I have a little control over. Like for moving out – I am not making excuses. Well, maybe to some point, but right now I can’t find a place that I can afford (been looking for a while, and that’s why I started looking for a new job), my family lives in another country and can’t help me financially (not that I would accept it anyway), and I don’t have that many friends who can (or are willing) to help out.
Another thing – he keeps buying me things even though I told him not to, and does little gestures like installing new stereo in my car, making small repairs, buying food I like, etc. That just kills me, I don’t understand it at all.
I did buy your book by the way, hope it helps me to understand men better:). But for now I just try to avoid him, and spend lots of time outside of the house.
Thanks again!
