Sometimes you have to make [i]sacrifices[/i] for people because you care about them and because it’s the right thing to do. Putting your need to not be hurt by possibly seeing her with someone else if you break up with her because she hasn’t properly grieved her late husband, ahead of what is right for her is the wrong thing to do. Staying with her because of your fear of discomfort is going to lead you to more of the same problems. Eventually she’s going to figure out she needs to be alone and she’ll do it on her terms. They may include passive aggressive breaking up (most likely) or flat out breaking up. My advice is to let go now so as not to put both of you through that. 😳
