It’s great that you recognize your responsibility in this situation. Letting things go for years can definitely lead you to a rut in your relationship. Now that you know where you let things go, my advice is that you stop doing that and change the pattern in YOUR behavior. 🙂 One of the first things you have to do is to try and get the spark back in your relationship. If your fiance sees you as a woman he cherishes and adores, he’s going to [i]want[/i] to do things for you and take care of you. Sex is important in relationships and if you’re not having sex with him, you can’t expect him to want to be all that committed. 😕 You’re very busy focusing on all that’s wrong. Instead, start focusing on making things exciting in the bedroom so that you can reignite his memory about the woman he first proposed to. 😎 You can’t be halfway in the relationship and halfway out and expect to be happy. It’s all or nothing.
Once your sex life is back on track, I guarantee he’s going to be much more interested in making you happy. But you have to focus on HIM not other men. That’s the way to make things better.
I hope that helps! 😀
