[b]Basketcasecutie[/b] gave you GREAT advice. Bottom line is that if you don’t want a complicated life, don’t date a single parent. 😕 I don’t understand how his ex-wife can not agree to his getting married again. Why does her opinion about who he marries matter? 😯 If they’re divorced, he can marry whomever he wants.
It sounds like maybe HE doesn’t want a complicated life either. In which case this new marriage is going to be a lot of trouble.
How old are you? How old is your boyfriend? How long has he been divorced? How long have the two of you dated?
If you answer those questions, I’ll advise you further.